maxwell Ejidike
1 day ago
Overview
Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.
But ask yourself this:
Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?
Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.
If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.
The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.
Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.
They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.
I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.
The process will hurt.
You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.
But is there really another choice?
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