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Olugbemi. Adeyinka Ogunleye
6 days ago
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'I'm Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing'
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).
However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable
My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?
I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.
Credit: heartbreaker on NL
